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C-R-I-T-I-C-I-S-M Yuk! One thing, I really have a problem with is criticism. Oh I can do the criticism. That I can do. It’s too easy (but that’s not today’s point!) Receiving it, well that’s another ...
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Calendars and Personality Type
I recently conducted a survey to look at the relationship between an individual’s personality type and his or her organizing and time management style, and noticed that the majority of participants s...
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Call of the Wild
A Fresh Paradigm for Living in Peace, Prosperity & Purpose
When a feather falls at your feet, it means you are to travel on wings of curiosity. Don't be afraid of strange lands or a language you don't understand. The feather means freedom. ...
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Call To Action
Direct Answers - Column for the week of February 3, 2003 I need some advice, please! I've been married to the same man for 11 years. He's a nice person when he's not drinking. However that isn't v...
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CAMPAIGN AGAINST CHILD LABOUR - Part 1st
CAMPAIGN AGAINST CHILD LABOUR-part 1st
Our Efforts and Experiences – Part - I
“In all the civilized societies all over the world system of child labour is condemned as a social evil but the fact is the system is prevelent on a large scale i...
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CAMPAIGN AGAINST CHILD LABOUR - part 2nd
CAMPAIGN AGAINST CHILD LABOUR
Our Efforts and Experiences – Part - II “In the previous issue, information was given about study of system of child labour in amedpur area and remedies for the eradication of the system, in the first part of...
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Can a 50+ Man Find Temporary Happiness with a Much Younger Woman?
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Can a Microbusiness Help You Enjoy a Better Retirement?
Not having enough money for a comfortable retirement tops the list of financial concerns among aging Americans, according to a recent Gallup Poll. It even outweighs peoples’ worries about having a ...
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Can Anyone Improve Their Reading Speed?
A question that is often asked of speed reading trainers is whether or not anyone can improve their reading speed. The simple, straightforward, answer to this question is “yes”, they can. However, this is not to say that the leaner will not have to provid...
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Can Anyone Improve Their Reading Speed?
A question that is often asked of speed reading trainers is whether or not anyone can improve their reading speed. The simple, straightforward, answer to this question is "yes", they can. However, ...
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Can Exercise Directly Help Advance the Goals of Your Life?
So far, the evolution of our exercise and fitness techniques has done wonders to improve our muscular strength, balance and flexibility, increase our cardiovascular efficiency and reduce our body fat.
However, the problem is that many of the movem...
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Can Fear of Public Speaking Actually Make You a Better Speaker?
Copyright 2005 Larry Tracy
Few elements of modern life can be so detrimental for one's ability for self-improvement and success than “Fear of Public Speaking.” Surveys indicate, however, that this is the is the number one source of apprehension in...
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Can Fear of Public Speaking Actually Make You a Better Speaker?
Few elements of modern life can be so detrimental for one's ability for self-improvement and success than “Fear of Public Speaking.” Surveys indicate, however, that this is the is the number one sour...
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Can I Really Make Money On The Internet?
Yes, you can. Actually, I guarantee that you can make money on the Internet. This is not a bold claim.
I know you've heard that 95% (probably even more) people fail to make money on the internet. I know you think you've tried all and e...
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CAN PEOPLE CHANGE?
One way I measure someone’s ability to change is whether she asks herself “What’s the lesson here?” at the end of an experience. When you believe that situations lead to lessons, you look for insights. This question insures you are open to new information...
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CAN TERRORISTS DESTROY THE WORLD?
Title: CAN TERRORISTS DESTROY THE WORLD? Author: Arthur Zulu Contact Author: mailto: controversialwriter@yahoo.com Copyright: Copyright © Arthur Zulu 2002 Word Count: 622 Web Address: http://www.1stbooks.com/bookview/10975
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Can This Relationship Be Helped?
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Can we decide on our own destiny?
Fate, destiny, resignation – they all seem to be synonyms up to a certain point. But, what if your whole life you’ve been a fighter and simply refuse to surrender in a certain situation? Can we rebel against our own destiny? Can we truly decide the w
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Can We Make Sense Of The Senseless?
I've been trying to make sense of what would appear to be a senseless attack on America by crazed, religious zealots.
After the initial numbness wore off and after spending many sleepless nights trying to find a rhyme or reason for what h...
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Can We Still Be Friends?
Excerpt From The Relationship Handbook: How to Understand and Improve Every Relationship in Your Life by Kevin B. Burk Even when we know it’s time to end a romantic relationship, we’re often relucta...
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Can You Actually Fail A Personality Quiz?
Q. I didn't get a job that I interviewed for. The employer told me that I had "failed" the personality quiz. How is that possible? Does this mean that I have no personality? A. "Fail" is a pretty str...
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Can You be an Optimistic Realist?
One question you might have when you read this title is, “Why I want to be an optimist?” Or, even, “How could I be optimistic with life the way it is?” or “Who could be an optimist in today’s world?
And “today’s world” may mean to you that office ...
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Can You Become A Better Friend After Taking A Friendship Quiz?
Q. Does a friendship quiz really work?
A. That depends upon what results you are seeking from a friendship quiz. If you are seeking to learn how to become a better friend, then the real results are found more in understanding the lessons that are h...
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Can You Become A Better Friend After Taking A Friendship Quiz?
Q. Does a friendship quiz really work? A. That depends upon what results you are seeking from a friendship quiz. If you are seeking to learn how to become a better friend, then the real results are f...
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Can you clearly explain your idea, goal or vision?
So you have a goal? Great! You have an idea? Great! Are you working on something new? Great! Can you explain it?
Do you have a bright idea which you only dream about with clarity, visualize with the mental picture of your eye, feel in every bone i...
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Can You Control It?
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Can You Hypnotize in Print?
How Do You Know if You've Been Hypnotized?
You may not realize this now, that hypnotic phrasing and command structures are all around you, in conversation, in print, and especially on daytime talk radio. You're being quietly programmed to think i...
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Can You Increase Your Brain Power?
What Do You Think?
Can you solve problems easily? Can you learn new things efficiently? Can you increase your brain power? Whatever you think and feel about these questions, those thoughts and feelings will hav...
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Can You Live Totally In The Moment?
Can you learn to totally live in the moment?
Do you know what that means?
It means erase all of your personal history, so nothing will get in your way of living for the moment.
You can't remember that so-and-so used to call you a d...
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Can You Make a “Torpedo” Out of Personal Junk? How to Optimize What You Have
“Junkyard Wars,” a TV series showed two teams of experts contending for a title. The aim of the competition was for teams to construct a torpedo that can hit a target. But the challenge was more than just the process of construction. The challenge wa...
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Can You Make a “Torpedo” Out of Personal Junk? How to Optimize What You Have
“Junkyard Wars,” a TV series showed two teams of experts contending for a title. The aim of the competition was for teams to construct a torpedo that can hit a target. But the challenge was more than...
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Can You See The *Good* In Good-byes?
Can you see the *good* in good-byes? Many people can't. They don't realize that nothing is bad or good, but thinking makes it so. Do you?
Here's an example:
A person is leaving. You are about ready to say your good-byes. What you *see* ...
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Can You Use This Scorecard For a Major Victory In Your Fight Against Atrophy?
You know it's that time of year again. You're thinking about your Resolutions for 2005. I recently asked about 200 people this one question: What is the one thing that you could start doing today tha...
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Can You Walk the Walk?
Can You Walk the Walk, Talk the Talk; Put Your Money Where Your Mouth Is?
We’ve all heard phrases that challenged us to greatness. But instead of being challenged, what a difference it could make if we challenged ourselves ... if, every day, w...
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Cancel Cancel How Giving Attention to What You Don't Want Brings More of It
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Cannabis, misunderstandings and possibilities.
I think a lot of the things being said now stem from the plain fact that the Government at present have abjectly given in to something endemic they feel they can not fight. So they seek to liberalize and soften the impact, to talk down the effects, and to...
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Cannibalism and Human Sacrifice - Part I
"I believe that when man evolves a civilization higher than the mechanized but still primitive one he has now, the eating of human flesh will be sanctioned. For then man will have thrown off all of his superstitions and irrational taboos."
(Diego...
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Cannibalism and Human Sacrifice - Part II
III. Chastening Reminders
Cannibalism is a chilling reminder of our humble origins in the animal kingdom. To the cannibal, we are no better and no more than cattle or sheep. Cannibalism confronts us with the irreversibility of our death and its fin...
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Captain Ahab joins the Canadian Navy
Canada’s military has been a long-standing joke for decades. On October 5th, that joke turned deadly serious when a crew member of the HMCS Chicoutimi died from injuries sustained onboard from smoke ...
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Capturing That Illusive Thing Called Time
CAPTURING THAT ILLUSIVE THING CALLED TIME
"The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing." - -Stephen Covey
So often I hear people say, "I can't afford to take time out of my busy schedule to plan!" To that I respond by s...
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Care And Maintenance Of The Human Hard Drive
The human brain is very much like a hard drive. If you stop to think of it, they are both filled with billions of tiny bits of information, stored in the memory cells just waiting to be accessed. T...
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Career Coaching Needs To Stop....When...
(Here are some ideas from the other side of the desk, from the coach's point of view, not the coachee!) 1. The person the coach is working with doesn't do the necessary work on him/herself to find a...
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Career Education Options For Working Adults
Ask yourself this question: “Do I like what I do for a living?” If you answered “no”, what are you doing about it? Maybe you have a “good” job, but it’s not very rewarding to you personally. Mayb...
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Career education options for working adults.
Ask yourself this question: “Do I like what I do for a living?” If you answered “no”, what are you doing about it? Maybe you have a “good” job, but it’s not very rewarding to you personally. Maybe you have job with good pay, but bad hours or worse – a job...
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Career Search from Within
Seeking meaningful and fulfilling work can become a discouraging, confusing and overwhelming journey. Beware spending too much time looking for your answers outside of yourself. Ultimately, coming to...
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Career To Do's for the New Year
Career To Do's for the New Year
The start of a new year is a common time when people talk about making changes, particularly when it comes to their jobs. Whether you are seriously ready to make a move or you are still thinking about ...
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Carl Jung
Carl Jung wondered if he might be crazy when he had visions of the World War before the first of these conflagrations in the 20th Century came to pass. This made him a lot more desirous of understanding from whence his prophetic visions might have come a...
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Case Closed
Direct Answers - Column for the week of October 27, 2003 I met my boyfriend on an online dating service four months ago. About a month ago I went to the dating service website to take my profile off...
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Casinos and States Target the Compulsive Gambler And Innocent People
Each and every day Casinos and State governments target innocent hard working people and the compulsive gambler through slogans, ads and various publicity stunts. This type of marketing triggers the ...
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Caste Out
Direct Answers - Column for the week of September 29, 2003 I am a 28-year-old Indian lady. I am in love with a 30-year-old Indian guy for the last four years. We share many interests in common and ...
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Casting Vision
One of my greatest loves as a kid was fishing. This love developed quickly because my family owned a little bait shop that was located near Toledo Bend Lake in Louisiana. Toledo Bend is well known fo...
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CAT KICKING CONDUCT
There was once a church that decided to bring their absentee members back into the fold. The preacher went to see one member for that purpose. His visit took him so far out in the country that you’d have to walk five miles back toward town just to start p...
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Catch-22
Direct Answers - Column for the week of February 16, 2004 I have been married for a little over seven years, with one 2-year-old son and another on the way. Over time, I believe my wife and I have g...
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Catholic Voters Need to Rethink Morality
If Catholic doctrine calls for the sanctity of all human life, then why is it that church leaders implicitly endorse Republican candidates that are pro-life at the expense of all else. In fact, the ...
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Celebrate Togetherness, Not Resentments
When we get together with family, especially during this hectic time of year, we often find old childhood hurts, feelings, and reactions popping up. We regress; we even lose some of our identity as i...
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Celebrating the Couch Potato
Ah, the couch potato, that icon of American pop culture values. Isn’t that the life? Why would anyone want to exert extra energy to be productive when you can simply plop down on the couch in front...
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Celebrating the ME in MumME
Copyright 2005 Peggy Porter
Another Mother’s Day is upon us. A day in which our loved ones bestow us with handmade gifts, breakfast in bed, supper out and sometimes even jewelry!!! It is a day for our family to show how much they appreciate the job...
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Cell Phone Abuse. Are You A Victim?
Like millions of others, you may be the victim of cell phone abuse. What is cell phone abuse? Let's say you're in a public place trying to concentrate on something or having a face-to-face conversation or just enjoying a peaceful moment when a stranger ...
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Cell Phone Abuse. Are You A Victim?
Like millions of others, you may be the victim of cell phone abuse. What is cell phone abuse? Let's say you're in a public place trying to concentrate on something or having a face-to-face conversati...
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Challenge the Universe ... Demand your Desires!
There have been so many times in my life where I have run into a series of obstacles that never seemed to stop. I could handle each and every one, but after a while, I would grow weary and want it a...
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Challenge Yourself ... Stretch Your Boundaries Daily!
Many times we fall into a sedentary lifestyle because we fear forward movement. We eventually feel as though we've fallen into a rut and can't seem to escape. However, this is where we tend to forg...
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Chandler Hill Partners - Find Your Future
The Find Your Future project is a division of our company equal to all others. When 24 percent of 18-24 year olds in the US alone have not completed a high school educational program, and they represent the largest proportion of the unemployed, Chandler H...
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Chanel Your Prosperity Energy Today
Every emotion, wether we classify it as good or bad, has energy. Think about it. Can’t you feel it when you are angry or bouncing off the walls happy? Just as there are levels of energy for these emo...
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Change
Those of you, who can fathom yourselves welcoming and enjoying a big, major change in your life right now, raise your hands! When I say, change, it might be a good change and it might be a bad change...
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Change - The Skill Of Adapting To The Inevitable
Change your thoughts and you change your world. -Norman Vincent Peale Not surprising, one of the core reasons that hinder us from the realization our innermost goals and desires is our inability to b...
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Change for Better...
A Change for the Better…
Terry Dashner……………Faith Fellowship Church PO Box 1586 Broken Arrow, OK 74013
It is said that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, each time expecting a different outcome. You and I know that reality ...
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Change How You Say It, Change Your Attractiveness
Language, whether it’s emerging from our mind, our heart, orour lips, says a lot about ourselves. It tells others whatstate we're in at the time, actually where we are in ourlife, as well as how we dress our self, our body and oursoul. It also tells us w...
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Change Ideas to Reality
How many times have you sat there and thought of a great idea that you became really excited about, only to let it drift away because you did not know how to turn it into a reality? Why does this happen?
Your self-talk may be getting in the way. Yo...
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Change Is Good
"I get up in the evening And I ain't got nothing to say I come home in the morning I go to bed feeling the same way I ain't nothing but tired Man, I'm just tired and bored with myself I check my looks in the mirror I wanna change...
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Change is like a pair of shoes
Change is something we all go through all the time, though we may not realise it. We cannot actually see change happening, we just see the results of change. Sometimes change is easy, other times it is a long and torturous process.
How difficult c...
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Change Is Like A Pair of Shows
Change is something we all go through all the time, though we may not realise it. We cannot actually see change happening, we just see the results of change. Sometimes change is easy, other times it ...
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CHANGE LEADERSHIP in EDUCATION
The L.E.A.D.E.R. Way
INTRODUCTION
In June 1997,the Prime Minister of Singapore unveiled the Government’s vision of ‘Thinking Schools, Learning Nation’ (TSLN). This vision was forged to improve Singapore’s education system in the light of t...
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Change the Way You Think and Change Your Life
Change the Way You Think and Change Your Life
Dennis is working as a factory worker during the day and a security guard at night. He needs these two incomes in order to stay above water in his bills. He has Wednesday’s off on both jobs and that is ...
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Change the Words and Change the World
Excerpt From The Relationship Handbook: How to Understand and Improve Every Relationship in Your Life by Kevin B. Burk If we want to change our lives in any way, all we need to do is to change our w...
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Change The World
It is becoming clear that the way a country or society is, the kind of “psyche” it has, depends on the way people relate to each other one-to-one, at the day-to-day level of life. At this one-to-one...
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Change Your Attitude, Change Your Life
If we are the products of our attitudes then it is important for us to examine our attitudes, both positive and negative, to discover the impact they are having on our lives. This is even more import...
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Change Your Body Language to Be Relaxed When Approaching Somebody New
Get a Girl To Seduce You By Changing Your Body Language.
Your attitude and confidence are directly connected to your body language.
I had a talk once with this guy who was really successful with women. He told me about how our body language...
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Change Your Career, Change Your Life!
Lots of times I see and talk to people who are tired, bored and burnt out of their current jobs. I'm not sure what causes this dis- satisfaction. One reason, though, that I've thought about is that t...
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Change Your Focus and Change Your Results
In his all-time bestselling record The Strangest Secret, author Earl Nightingale made one of the most profound observations of the 20th century. He said: “You become what you think about all day lon...
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Change Your Inner Conversations to Control Your Anger
Every Holiday season Vicki found herself angry and silently seething at her older sister, Susie, and mother as they were merrily chatting about Susie’s successful life. Thanksgiving was no exception....
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Change Your Internal Conversations to Control Your Anger
Every Holiday season Vicki found herself angry and silently seething at her older sister, Susie, and mother as they were merrily chatting about Susie’s successful life.
Thanksgiving was no exception. Vicki had to sit stoically while Mom praised Sus...
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Change Your Life For The Better!
Are you still hoping and waiting for someone somewhere to come to your rescue, wave a magic wand and instantaneously change your life for the better? Are you praying that you will one day win the lo...
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Change Your Life With a Simple Habit
Change Your Life With a Simple Habit You've worked for hours on dinner - doing the best you can - and he says ...................nothing. How do you feel? Feel like cooking tomorrow night? What if he...
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Change your mind - and everything else will fall into place!
Three steps to your Personal Transformation:
1)Awareness and Perception 2)Law of Cause and Effect 3)Law of Accumulation
These categories are what you need to understand in order to be in total control of your being!
Most go thro...
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Change Your Perceptions...Change Your Life
Change Your Perception...Change Your Life
There is no reality, only perception. I've heard it said that if you want to change your life then you have to change the way you perceive life. For example, if ten of us are eyewitnesses to an au...
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Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life
The only thing in life we have direct control over is our thoughts and our thoughts determine how we experience life. You may know of someone who has what appears to be a perfect life … a loving fami...
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Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life. Five simple ways to bring more peace and harmony to your life!
When you change your thoughts, you change your life. The fastest way to achieve peace and harmony is to change your thinking. In order to change your outer world you must first change your inner worl...
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CHANGES IN PERCEPTION FOLLOWING YOGA PRACTICE
Perception is sensation with added complexity due to factors such as memories and emotions. Yoga practice influences perception in three ways: (1) by increasing perceptual sensitivity, (2) by selectively `shutting out’ undesirable stimuli, and (3) by chan...
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Changing Careers Without Quitting Your Job
When most people hear the term "Career Change" the first thought that often comes to mind is handing in your resignation and pursuing an exciting job elsewhere. This attitude leaves many people neglecting a gold mine of career opportunities within their...
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Changing Course
Direct Answers - Column for the week of March 17, 2003 I'm at my wit's end. My wife of 20 years is leaving me. She said she is sick of me always talking at her. She says she doesn't care about mon...
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Changing Destinations ... Universal Detours for a Better Life
I recently worked with several people who are in the lowest points in their lives. It seems that everywhere they turn and everything they do creates a new avalanche of loss. Some of these people were, at one time, wealthy individuals, but, becaus...
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Changing Fear into Excitement
Fear scares people. That’s what it’s supposed to do; it’s just a matter of how much and how often do we really need to be scared? Basically, there are two kinds of fear. Real fear allows you to save your butt in challenging situations (like being chased b...
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CHANGING YOUR FLOW OF THOUGHTS
While you are reading this I do not want you to think about your shoes (or your feet if your not wearing shoes). Through the entire article never at any time are you to think of the color, style or fit of your shoes nor the temperature or feel ...
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Changing Your Life
How Hypnotherapy Can Help
Hypnotherapy is the process of using hypnosis to unlock the capacity of the unconscious mind to bring about therapeutic changes by modifying deeply-held assumptions, fears and misconceptions.
The issues that pr...
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Changing Your Luck
In this week's New Age Notebook, I am going to address a subject that often comes up in the chat rooms: LUCK. Why is it that some people seem to be born with horseshoes up the wazoo while others battle an endless string of disasters and setbacks?Is there...
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Changing Your Mind!
I wonder what it is that sparks the first interest in wanting to improve your life?
All through your Life you plod along, going with the flow, and then one day it suddenly doesn't seem 'enough' any more.
The catalyst can be anythi...
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Changing Your Partner
Relationships are never perfect, and rarely do perfect partners come together. At some point in every relationship, partners want to change something about each other.
The following are three schools of thought on changing another's behavior and a...
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CHAPTER 2001
When this year began, there were people in Florida digging through ballots upon ballots searching for chads they could count.
Near the end of this year, a firefighter, police officer or just some guy named Chad stood up to be counted on...
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Character or Reputation
Character or Reputation. When we see these two words together, we often mistakenly believe that you cannot have one without the other. Reputation in a nutshell is what others around us think of us...
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Characteristics To Help Find The Work Of Your Dreams
"Why am I not happy?" "Why is life a struggle?" "Why doesn't work, work?" We probe our soul with questions like these, but we will never hear the answers if we don't take time off in our hectic days to listen. Unless we slow down and take a deep b...
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Characteristics: Creative Types vs Clods!
Here are some odds & ends I have observed in creative-expert-genius types:
Direction of motivation: creatives move toward what they want in all areas of their life while the clods move away from what they don't want.
Time orientation: crea...
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Charge the lines...
Charge the lines…
Terry Dashner………………Faith Fellowship Church PO Box 1586 Broken Arrow, OK 74013
“He teacheth my hands to war, so that a bow of steel is broken by mine arms” (Psalms 18:34).
You remember the name Florence Nightingale, d...
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Chatty Cathy
We all run across these people who talk and talk and talk. They forget to include you in their conversation. You know who I am talking about here. They are the ones who run a monologue on you and you just stand there for a while so shocked that you can't...
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Check Your Comfort Zone At The Door
No matter what goals and dreams you desire, there's a good chance it's going to mean reaching beyond what you believe yourself to be capable of. This fine line between what we think we can achieve an...
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Check Your Frequency
From time to time we need to stop during our day to keep our frequency in check. Our frequencies are the ranges of feelings and emotions that we have. Like radio waves, our feelings and emotions vibr...
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Cheerleaders
This week’s article assumes that you have chosen a goal, dream, or task for yourself. You may or may not have started implementing your step by step plans yet. Are you a bit shaky in your faith tho...
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Cherokee People Will REturn
Here is a brief Intro for my book Cherokee People Will REturn. Yes, the E is intentionally capitalized.
It does no good to lie about the past even if it seems to make more money due to corrupt practices carried out by the invaders of Paradise. Gen...
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Chewing On Mindfulness: Gum Is Your Secret
My grandmother, a feisty and athletic woman in her younger years, was a gum-chewer. She was never without a pack or two of Wrigley's Doublemint gum.
She wasn't a snapper or bubble-blower--she viewed that as highly uncivilized. Grandma kept her m...
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Chewing On Mindfulness: Gum Is Your Secret
My grandmother, a feisty and athletic woman in her younger years, was a gum-chewer. She was never without a pack or two of Wrigley's Doublemint gum. She wasn't a snapper or bubble-blower--she viewed...
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Child rights in Pakistan
Access to free and compulsory education is a fundamental right of children. In Pakistan education is neither free, nor compulsory, nor easily accessible to all children. Pakistan has about 184,000 primary schools, including about 121,000 government sc...
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Children Of A Star
A lot of people in our world tell stories. Stories can add insight into the meanings of our lives as well as being mediums for the transferal of wisdom and knowledge. A story that interests me is the...
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China: Challenges and Commitment
China is a huge place, of that there is no doubt. With over 1.3 billion people it faces enormous pressures and challenges that only the people of Asia and the subcontinent can truly understand.
This was brought home to me again recently when talkin...
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Chinese Gooseberries and Oprah?
Oprah and Harpo Productions, consistently reap awe-inspiring progress and record-breaking profits even after 25 years. While Oprah consistently soars with stellar growth, the rest of the industry see...
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Chinese on terrorism: A question of "proper candor"
The moral problem that arises out of state run propaganda does so, not as a result of the target audience believing in the veracity of the propaganda, but, when members of that audience do not believe, however choose to act as if they do in furtherance of...
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Chinese Writing Characteristics
Over the years, Chinese were evolved and developed in the following different ways:
Pictographs
The original written format were found on the markings scratched onto tortoise shells and animal bones, the so-called "oracle bones". These anc...
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Chiropractic Colleges
Before Chiropractic Colleges & schools accept one into their educational systems, it is recommended that students have earned a degree in the arts or sciences from ...
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Chiropractic Schools
Before Chiropractic Schools accept one into their educational system, it is recommended that students have earned a degree in the arts or sciences from an accredited...
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Choice and Change
OK, so here we are. We've switched the calendars out and made our resolutions. Now it's time to set about the process of making those changes we've resolved to make. You haven't forgotten already hav...
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Choice and Change, The Two Constants
OK, so here we are. We've switched the calendars out and made our resolutions. Now it's time to set about the process of making those changes we've resolved to make. You haven't forgotten already have you?
I heard you say this year I'm going t...
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Choose a Life Mate, Don't Wait for a Soul Mate
Choose a Life Mate, Don’t Wait For a Soul Mate By Michelle L. Casto, M.Ed. This article is adapted from the book Get Smart! About Modern Romantic Relationships: Your Personal Guide to Finding Right and Real Love
Have you ever wondered why all...
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Choose Happiness
It's a beautiful spring day in Beverly Hills, California. I'm looking out my window at elm trees in full leaf and roses in full bloom, and thinking about the people who helped me get where I am toda...
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Choose Ones that Cry
Do you have a friend who tends to well up with tears very easily? Those tender ones who won't hurt a flea, and whom you sometimes accuse of going overboard with generosity?
Or do you steer clear of them because their tears make you u...
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Choose The Right Incense Burner
Incense and incense burners come in many different varieties. While incenses vary in essences and aromas, incense burners vary in materials and shapes. Not only the incense you choose will have an ef...
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Choose To Be Happy
What if I told you that you have the ability to decide if you are happy or not. You would probably say that I'm crazy. 1. I'm not crazy and 2. Happiness is a choice. You can't depend on someone else...
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Choose To Be Happy, Now!
Choose Happiness....Now! The older I get, the more I realize that ninety percent of life is about choices. Similarly, both the choice to be happy or unhappy is totally up to the individual. Sure, unforeseeable circumstances come along and rattle our c...
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Choose To Become An Encourager
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“...I know that the only source of happiness is within me, and I will begin to share it. Like a perfume, I know that I cannot pour it on others without getting a few drops on myself."
- Og Mandin...
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Choose To Integrate Body, Mind & Soul
Our bodies were made in such a way that everything is integrated. The mind appears to control everything. When something happens to the body whether good or bad, it registers in the brain and the b...
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Choosing a Graduate Program: Six Considerations
Choosing a Graduate Program: Six Considerations Introduction. A well-thought-out decision to go to graduate school is one based on intense soul-searching, rigorous academic training, and careful research. Yet many undergraduates, eager to embrace a...
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Choosing Our Parents
There's a Native American belief that before we are born, we choose our parents. It actually ties in pretty nicely with the reincarnation idea that we prearrange certain circumstances before each li...
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Choosing the Right Coach
You've done some investigating in the field of coaching, and you're intrigued by what you've found: coaches can help you get on track toward what you want, whether it's a balanced life, successful career, or harmonious relationships. You've even visi...
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Christian Singles: Questions To Keep Your Spirit Alive
With special events like Valentine's Day coming and going each year, I am reminded how difficult it can be to retain your spirit of who you are when you're a Christian single. It just sometimes feels...
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Christmas Gift Ideas ~ from the heart
1.)Invite those who's families are away, for a get-together on Christmas evening; to eat goodies, sing carols, and just visit (giving some a sense of family and something to look forward to).
2.)Run errands for shut-ins.
3.)Volunteer to ser...
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Christmas Joy
Christmas comes and goes at the same lightening speed as the bank balance. We put on a few pounds as the wallet is shedding its. Then comes the January sales “hooray” that s if I had any money to spe...
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Christopher Columbus: What do You Think of That?
Yesterday was warm and sunny.
My children and I enjoyed frolicking in the swimming pool, each of us adding pink to our cheeks and smiles to our faces.
What a surprise to wake up this morning to a cold wind blowing and the appearance o...
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CHU MASTER's HOME!
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Circles In The Water
When you were a child, or maybe even when you were older, did you ever toss a pebble into the water and watch the ripples that emanated from the point where it broke the surface? Or watched the effect of raindrops falling on a body of water? I have done t...
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Citizens of the Land of Opportunity
"We hold these truths to be self-evident: That all men are created equal; that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights; that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit o...
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Citizens of the Land of Opportunity [for JULY 4th!]
"We hold these truths to be self-evident: That all men are created equal; that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights; that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness."
--The Declaration o...
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Citizens Of The Land Of Opportunity (For July 4!)
"We hold these truths to be self-evident: That all men are created equal; that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights; that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit o...
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Clarity Through Contrast...Really!
© Michael Losier 2004. You may include this article in your ezine or on your website or distribute it to others, provided you include the copyright statement and the bio information tag line found at the end of this article. Discover Clarity through C...
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Cleaned Up or Cleaned Out?
I need your help. I did a good deed recently, but I was gripped by second thoughts. I want to know if you think I should have done this. Here is what happened: In preparing our condo for sale, we had...
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Clear and Appropriate Assignments
As a teacher of students with learning disabilities, I found that one of the most difficult things for many of my students was understanding and completing homework assignments.
Here are 10 tips to help students be successful in completing their h...
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Clear Mind, Empty Head?: A Leak in "Mind Like Water"
There's a lot of talk in meditation circles about emptying the mind. This is a roadblock for many people. Why? Because it's counterintuitive. After all, we spend most of our waking hours filling up our minds. We go to school, we get trained, we ...
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Clear Mind, Empty Head?: A Leak In "Mind Like Water"
There's a lot of talk in meditation circles about emptying the mind. This is a roadblock for many people. Why? Because it's counterintuitive. After all, we spend most of our waking hours filling up o...
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Clearing a Path for Happiness
In the United States, the pursuit of happiness is a god-given right and Americans have a document to prove it. But I wonder why the Founding Fathers deliberately phrased it, ‘the pursuit of happines...
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Climbing Mount Goals
Climb and Summit Mt. Goals
Are you trying to reach a goal that feels like a large mountain to climb?
Climbing a mountain is much easier than one would think. You start at the bottom, you progress towards base camp, you hit the middle of the...
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Clocks, Seasons, and Cycles
Why should you follow astrology? How can people believe that the planet Neptune is affecting our choices and actions here on earth? If it's been studied forever, then why can't they prove it? What...
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Closing the Gap On Your Career Goals
If you still picture a steady progression up the ladder when you think of your career goals, it is time to shift your thinking. For most people, climbing the career ladder is no longer an option. The...
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Clutter and Confusion
I am always throwing and giving things away. Clutter has always annoyed me. However, as much as I detest clutter, I am surrounded by it and even contribute to it.
I can now clearly see I'm kind of a clutter snob. I have looked down on people tha...
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Clutter Loves to Hide - 7 Places to Look for it
In Feng Shui, the first thing to do is remove the clutter. Until clutter is removed, any Feng Shui enhancements you apply will not be effective. And, if all you ever do is get rid of your clutter, you will be boosting your prosperity, improv...
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Clutter-Clearing and Your Authentic Self
Have you ever felt so discouraged, your life so out-of-control, the universe so unresponsive to your needs and desires, that you couldn't help it: you just had to clean up? By paying attention to the...
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Coaching for Lawyers: 10 Ways a Lawyer Can Benefit from Working with a Professional Coach
Marie noticed that Diane seemed to be sailing through her career and receiving “nods” from the firm’s partners. According to Marie, Diane was extremely successful in handling her cases, developing strong relationships with her clients and seemed to be bui...
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Coaching is Like Gardening
"A garden in the early stage is not a pleasant or compelling place: it's a lot of arduous, messy, noisome work -- digging up the hard ground, putting in the fertilizer, along with the seeds and seedlings. So with beginning a story or novel." --Ted Solo...
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COACHING: When its beyond Oprah and Dr. Phil
How many more servings of the daytime self-help salad will it take to sooth your appetite? To actually get your life to where you want it to be? To actually start seeing changes for yourself rather t...
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COACHING: When it’s beyond Oprah and Dr. Phil
How many more servings of the daytime self-help salad will it take to sooth your appetite? To actually get your life to where you want it to be? To actually start seeing changes for yourself rather t...
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Collective Narcissism - Narcissism, Culture, and Society
In their book "Personality Disorders in Modern Life", Theodore Millon and Roger Davis state, as a matter of fact, that pathological narcissism was the preserve of "the royal and the wealthy" and that it "seems to have gained prominence only in the la...
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Color Me Love
For those who walk in the flesh, the law is given. Some only see in black and white.
And, yet, there is a more excellent way. Others see in color and, when they do, that color is love.
"Beloved, if our heart condemn us not, then...
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Combat Stress by Creating Your Own Oasis
Help your body and mind relax, and increase your sense of well-being, by creating a personalized comfort zone. Whether at home, work or when traveling, you can create your own oasis with these eight ...
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Combat Worrying
'We could never learn to be brave and patient if there were only joy in the world' Helen Keller
We worry about problems, but worry is itself a problem. It inhibits clear thinking, it drains us of energy, it upsets our sleep and our digestion. ...
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Combat Worrying
'We could never learn to be brave and patient if there were only joy in the world' Helen Keller We worry about problems, but worry is itself a problem. It inhibits clear thinking, it drains us of en...
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Combat Worrying
'We could never learn to be brave and patient if there were only joy in the world' Helen Keller
We worry about problems, but worry is itself a problem. It inhibits clear thinking, it drains us of energy, it upsets our sleep and our diges
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Combining the Mind and Effective Goal-Setting
Goals are of vital importance in our lives. Many of us spend our lives without any definite purpose, simply drifting from place to place. Setting goals help us to focus our lives and to advance confidently in a definite direction. Without them, I don't t...
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Come Alive!
As many of you know I have a passion for helping people identify their dreams and go after them. What you may not know is that (much to my surprise) I have uncovered a spiritual aspect to my work. ...
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Come as You Are
Have you ever dreamed of being such a wonderful person and devoted servant of Christ that …
your heart overflowed with love toward your fellow man? others could, truly, see Christ in you? it would be a joy being in your presence? people...
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Coming of Age: Part 1
A Valentine For Grown-Ups
And All Those Who Will Someday Be Over Fifty
Part One of Two
Every six seconds, an American man or woman enters the sexual wilderness of life after 50. There are close to 60 million of us in our mid-50s and ...
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Coming To Your Senses, Again and Again!
When we talk about the Enchanted Self we are referring to positive states of mind and body that are unique to each of us. We are also referring to the process by which we tap into our Enchanted Self...
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Commit It To Paper
Commit it to paper - You have the idea so therefore you have within you the ability to make it a reality. Admittedly it may not always be obvious, but rest assured deep down you're capable. The catc...
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Commit To Applying Lessons Learned
When growing up as a child, the concept of learning a lesson becomes so routine, that many of us just set it aside as unimportant like many other principles that otherwise should be heeded. It is so...
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Commit to Doing 80%
Instead of trying to be perfect, it is better to do your best, and often your best doesn't look like going all out all the time. This is especially true when you are making changes in your life. Inst...
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Commitment and Change
Ten years ago, I was living an entirely different life. I owned a large chiropractic, holistic health clinic. I was the president of my state chiropractic association, and I was seeing many hundreds ...
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Communally Effective
Work real hard, then play real hard with joy. Your best times in life are when you are in community with others. It is important to continually build community. The more we get to understand other people, the more we can understand ourselves a...
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Communicate Powerfully to Get What You Want
The most important skill you can develop is the ability to consistently communicate powerfully. When you are confident about your communication, you can easily ask for help picking up the kids at school, a raise, even a date.
Use these Powerful C...
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Communication Is The Difference Between Winning and Losing
The ability to "communicate with a focus" (action) plays a vital role. Regardless of our occupation, the individuals who excel in a specific field and are able to communicate this knowledge to benefi...
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Communications Skills Add Value
Want to uncover a success secret that can lead to more happiness, help you to be more effective in your work, enable you to make more money and to be more fulfilled? Sound too good to be true? The se...
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Community After Tragedy
One Friday in November, I began a journey from New Jersey to downtown New York City to visit old work friends. It was my first visit since the tragic September 11th attack. Although I've traveled thi...
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Community after Tragedy
One Friday in November, I began a journey from New Jersey to downtown New York City to visit old work friends. It was my first visit since the tragic September 11th attack. Although I've traveled thi...
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Community after Tragedy
One Friday in November, I began a journey from New Jersey to downtown New York City to visit old work friends. It was my first visit since the tragic September 11th attack. Although I've traveled thi...
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Comparing Corporate and Personal Goal Attainment Programs That Have Developed Over Thousands Of Years
In the 1990s Stephen Covey’s name became famous through the publication of the “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”. As many know the “7 habits” are not a group of new concepts but age-old appro...
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Comparison - The Great Destroyer
In speaking of comparison we need to be aware that we should never compare ourselves to others. No other person has our unique qualities. No one else has ever gone through the exact same circumstance...
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Compartments Of The Mind.
Mary, Mary, quite contrary, how does your garden grow? Do you remember that nursery rhyme? Well, how about we find out how our organic brain grows and develops .... Then we can gracefully nurture it, so that it blossoms and blooms as a radiant ros...
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Compassion – A Powerful Doorway to Personal Growth
The following article is offered for free use in your ezine, print publication or on your web site, so long as the author resource box at the end is included, with hyperlinks. Notification of publica...
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Compassionate Living
Title: Compassionate Living
Author: Heather J. Tait Email: contact@silencespeaks.com URL: Silence Speaks, http://www.silencespeaks.com Word Count: 827
*** ARTICLE *** As we grow into a more spiritual means of living it changes ou...
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COMPETITION IS BEST KEPT TO YOURSELF!
Are you 'playing golf' at work? Richard Behrens, Golf Grand Master, says, "Good golf is all in the mind....the golfer's own lower mind, and how the person perceives the situations s/he finds...on the course are the major reasons s/he suffers ...
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Competition, Jealousy And Goals
Naturally some of us are more competitive than others, but the vast majority of us have a good degree of competition hardwired into us. If you think you are not competitive in the least, ask yoursel...
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Complacency
If we do not change our direction, we will end up where we are headed. - Chinese proverb
The self-development market is inundated with tips, techniques and treasures on visualizing your success. Leaders in this field encourage us to picture a succe...
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Completing Unpleasant Tasks
We all have tasks we don't enjoy doing, but they have to get done. Whether it's doing our taxes, cleaning out the refrigerator, or filing that pile of papers, these are the chores we dread. So we end...
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Computer Homeschooling..the added advantage in african american children's education. (Part 1)
We've got spirit, yes we do! We've got spirit how 'bout you!
When it comes to computer homeschooling your african american children, african american parents have to enable themselves with the right spirit to support their children's unique edu...
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Concentration Power Is Yours
Can You Learn Better Concentration? Imagine how much more productive you would be if you could have total concentration whenever you wished. The good news is you can learn how to concentrate better. ...
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Concentration Power Is Yours
Can You Learn Better Concentration?
Imagine how much more productive you would be if you could have total concentration whenever you wished. The good news is you can learn how to concentrate better. In fact, you can do so right now.
Concen
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Conclave: Electing a New Pope
Upon the death of the Pope, a monumental sequence of events unfolds, culminating in a process known as the conclave whereby a new Pope is elected to lead the Roman Catholic faith. Beneath Michelangel...
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Confessions of a Lover of Books and Learning
Many of us love to read. Some of us who love to read the most are introverts, so I went to the source to find out what it’s all about.
There’s a great readers’ survey on TheIntrovertzCoach ( http://www.theintrovertzcoach.com/booksurvey.html ) and ...
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Confessions of a Professional Matchmaker
Don't make these mistakes when searching for love online! "I spent my life searching for the perfect woman. I finally found her but alas, she was searching for the perfect man." Anonymous I was a pro...
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Confidence And Its Origin
Confidence and its Origin Don’t you have the confidence to do this work …… Come on, you can do it……. Have confidence…… What does all this mean? Why do we say all these words when we are expecting som...
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Confidence And Its Origin
Confidence and its Origin
Don’t you have the confidence to do this work …… Come on, you can do it……. Have confidence…… What does all this mean? Why do we say all these words when we are expecting somebody to do something? Why do these words genera
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Confidence is Cool
REMEMBER THE TIME you could not think of anything to say to the person sitting across from you in that little café or across the conference table? You stammered when they looked your way. They smiled...
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Confident Rapport
What Is Confident Rapport? The majority of theories on how to pick up girls were compiled by guys who had problems with women and tried to get better. Therein lies the very nature of the problems with most theory. They all assume that you, going over ...
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Conflict in Cyberspace: How To Resolve Conflict Online
Have you ever noticed how conflict can get blown out of proportion online? What may begin as a small difference of opinion, or misunderstanding, becomes a major issue very quickly. Conflict can be difficult at the best of times, but what is it about onlin...
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Conflict In Faith
Direct Answers - Column for the week of July 19, 2004 My husband is Jewish, and I am Catholic. That wasn't a problem when we were dating, because he isn't religious. He married a Catholic before, a...
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Congratulations--You're Human!
Are you feeling depressed? Do you feel disconnected from others? Have you been feeling confused about the meaning of your life?
CONGRATULATIONS! You're human.
In our culture, we have taught ourselves that feeling any kind of despair...
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Conjuring Up Sid Ceasar
Love focuses attention. When you really love something, you are naturally pouring your interest and appreciation toward the object of your love. The driving core of this concern and care, on an elect...
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Connect the Dots! Your Roadmap for Success
Recently, Steve Jobs, founder of Apple Computer and Pixar Animation Studios, gave a commencement address to the graduating class at Stanford University. He talked about creating passion, life and dea...
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Connecting with Bliss
Every day, I witness people leading chaotic lifestyles, responding like robots to the negative circumstances of their lives, creating more dissonance and conflict. They seek solace in the next best ...
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Conquer Your Fear
Your belief system is the driving force behind your behaviors and your results. If you can change your beliefs, you will change your behaviors. When you change your behaviors, you will change your re...
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Conquering Goals: The Battle Plan
“To accomplish great things we must not only act, but also dream, not only plan, but also believe.”(Anatole France) While these three items define success, without all of them success would be unattainable. Without a dream, you will be without desire and ...
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Conquering Goals: The Battle Plan
“To accomplish great things we must not only act, but also dream, not only plan, but also believe.”(Anatole France) While these three items define success, without all of them success would be unatta...
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Conquering Public Speaking Anxiety
Making a speech in front, whether the audience number a hundred or just ten, qualifies as one of man’s greatest fears. This is why public speaking is one commodity that is quite rare right now for on...
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Consciously Flowing Appreciation: Developing Your “Gratitude Muscle!”
We’ve all had days when, for whatever reason, we seem to find ourselves living unconsciously, guided by outworn beliefs and feeling stuck in lower-energy vibrations. When these times occur, you can help yourself to shift into higher alignment by rememberi...
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Consider the Conditions You Are In
Consider the condition you are in. Think about your life. Your job, your finances, your health, your relationships. Do you ever wonder what brought about the conditions of each area? How much of it was God? How much of it was other people? How much of it ...
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Considering Becoming A Life Coach?
As life coaching is gaining popularity, so is interest in becoming a life coach. Many people love the idea of working for themselves and being in a profession that helps others. If you are thinking a...
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Consolidate Loans Before the Rate Change!
Consolidate Loans Before the Rate Change! Have you ever heard the old adage, “There is no time like the present”? Well, if there was ever a time that that advice was very necessary, today is the day, as when it comes to debt consolidation on student l...
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Conspiracy of Silence
Direct Answers - Column for the week of January 12, 2004 I'm hoping you can help me with a moral problem that crops up every now and then in my personal and professional life. Sometimes I find mysel...
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Constructive Tips About Retrenchment
This article provides constructive tips about facing retrenchment and moving on with new career opportunities. 1) Don’t take it personally. Your retrenchment should not lower your self-esteem. You h...
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Consulting Your Soul
Recently I approached a traffic light where a man stood in shabby clothes with a three-legged dog by his side. As I waited for the light to change I looked at this scene with compassion and felt an u...
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CONSULTING YOUR SOUL
Dr. Wayne Dyer - CONSULTING YOUR SOUL
Recently I approached a traffic light where a man stood in shabby clothes with a three-legged dog by his side. As I waited for the light to change I looked at this scene with compassion and felt an urge to co...
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Content Means Nothing Without Context
Have you ever stopped to wonder why some people seem to be able to attract luck and success while others get nowhere?
Have you seen some people move up quickly through a company while their colleagues (who seem to have similar abilities) remain...
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Context-Free Living ... Living Without Boundaries!
I know by now that you've heard the terms "Debt-Free Living", "Disease-Free Living", or an overabundance of other such coined terms for various marketing ploys to sell products and services. However...
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Control Your Fear Before It Controls You
"Fear Factor" is one of my favorite TV shows. It highlights the courage of the participants to engage in the most fearsome and disgusting acts. Most of the contestants are willing to sacrifice their...
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Control Your Fear Before It Controls You
"Fear Factor" is one of my favorite TV shows. It highlights the courage of the participants to engage in the most fearsome and disgusting acts. Most of the contestants are willing to sacrifice their...
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Control Your Own Destiniy
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“You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.” -Brian Tracy
In order to mak...
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Control Your Own Destiny
“You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.” -Brian Tracy I...
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Control Your Own Level of Motivation
When I first mention this to most people, they really don’t get it, so here is a simple formula for keeping your moods upbeat. Audio books and music can be used as tools for motivation. The audio b...
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Control, Helplessness, and Love
During my 35 years of counseling individuals, couples, families and business partners, I have discovered that an important purpose of our controlling behavior in our relationships is to avoid the fee...
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Controlling Behavior, Loving Behavior
When Zack and Tiffany started counseling with me, they were on the verge of divorce after 16 years of marriage. Neither really wanted to end the marriage, yet both were miserable. Both of them believ...
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Conversational Negative Self-talk
Most people don't even know they're doing it. Throughout the course of normal conversation, they bombard themselves with negative self-talk. Even people who are aware of the power of their words se...
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Coping as a Tool of Enchantment
Many of my readers write to me about the tensions of everyday life. Not only do people wonder how to relax, but people often ask, "How do I learn to better cope with what faces me? Can THE ENCHANTED ...
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Coping with Difficult People
According to a new survey carried out by Alliance & where ID_NUM=9270; Leicester, one in five small business owners view tax as their greatest concern. The Chancellor has announced in his last budget that companies with profits below 10,000...
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Coping with Grief - It's Called Living Through It
"Dad, I tried to wake Nana, I think she's dead." "Grandpa died yesterday." "Oh my God, Daddy's dead." "Uncle Jack died today." "Grandma died last night." "I'm standing with the body of your deceased father-in-law." "H...
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Coping with Grief - It's Called Living Through It
"Dad, I tried to wake Nana, I think she's dead." "Grandpa died yesterday." "Oh my God, Daddy's dead." "Uncle Jack died today." "Grandma died last night." "I'm standing with the body of your decea...
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Coping With Having a Small Penis
If I meet an angry man, somebody who is truly angry without a reason, I often wonder if the cause might be something as simple as small penis size. I off course talk from experience of growing up wi...
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Coping with the Loss Caused by Chronic Illness
Living with a chronic illness has a profound impact on one’s life and creates a lot of grief in response to the losses it imposes on our lives. There are wide arrays of potential life interruptions and psychological changes one will go through when dea...
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Coping with the Time Crunch
“There is never enough time, unless you're serving it.” -Malcolm Forbes (1919 - 1990) My son is 17 months old. (OK, all you seasoned parents out there, stop laughing!) I work full time,...
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Correspondence E-mail or Postal Chess
Correspondence Chess or E-mail Chess might be for you if can't spend a lot of time playing without interuptions because you also have a life
E-mail chess is an evolution from the postal chess which was very popular in the late 19th century. Both...
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Could You Be A Workaholic?
If you need to put on boots and grab a lap-top computer to relieve yourself at night, you might be a redneck workaholic. It never crossed my mind that there could be such a thing as a redneck workaho...
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Could you use a “Stop Doing” list?
One of the tried and true organization and time-management tools is the trusty old “to do” list. I was trained to diligently put one together at the end of the day for the following day, and what...
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Could you use a “Stop Doing” list?
One of the tried and true organization and time-management tools is the trusty old “to do” list. I was trained to diligently put one together at the end of the day for the following day, and whateve...
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Could Your Thoughts Sabotage Your Happiness? Take this quiz and find out.
Women are conditioned to be people pleasers. Women are taught to be “nice” even if that’s means comprising their happiness, and often times that is exactly what happens. We have a tendency to do, and say things just so the other person’s feelings don’t ge...
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Could Your Thoughts Sabotage Your Happiness?Take this quiz and find out.
Women are conditioned to be people pleasers. Women are taught to be “nice” even if that’s means comprising their happiness, and often times that is exactly what happens. We have a tendency to do, and...
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Countdown 2 Armegeddon
'Tis the season to be jolly! Why? Simple. King George II, owing his re-election in large part to the American Christian Right Wing, will certainly not defoul the regions surrounding the holy land by launching any more full-scale attacks, in this...
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Counting Them Happy
"Take ... the ... prophets for an example of suffering affliction, and of patience ... we count them happy which endure," James 5:10-11.
Satan has used this passage to rob us of a victorious life. Any happiness you see is likely just a...
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Courage Is A Gift
“It is not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” -Epictetus, the 1st Century Greek Philosopher Courage is daring to be… Brave. Enterprising. Bold. In your business or personal l...
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Courage to Trust: A How-To Guide
The other day I was reviewing some affirmations and noticed a clenched feeling in my chest while reading one. Something felt out of whack and was sending me signals. The affirmation read "I have a steady, predictable income." Now there's nothing ne...
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Course Of Treatment
Direct Answers - Column for the week of August 23, 2004 My husband is 45. We are getting ready to celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary. He now tells me he has fun when he is out of town in a grou...
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Covert Persuasion Techniques
Covert Persuasion Techniques by Alan Tutt bttp://www.KeysToPowerPersuasion.com
Two topics that have attracted a lot of interest ever since I brought the Keys To Power online more than a year ago are hypnotism and covert persuasion techniques....
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Crazy Talk or Clear Communication?
Kevin apologized to Melissa after he missed an appointment. It was a simple misunderstanding, so Melissa said she wasn't really upset, just frustrated and disappointed.
But Kevin sensed there was more to it. Melissa's smile seemed forced...
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Create a Blueprint for Your Success
Having a strong foundation enables you to build a thriving, profitable life and business. A simple method to create this foundation is with Discovery, Vision, Planning and Benchmarking, the four corn...
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Create a Communication Station to Manage Your Household
Schedules and time management systems are the quickest and easiest ways to eliminate conflict and better manage your household. It’s amazing how wonderful these tools are and how they simplify one’s ...
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Create a Conscious Love Relationship ?2
Create a Conscious Love Relationship ?2 Robert Elias Najemy Part 2 of 3 part series
We continue here to discuss aspects of a mature relationship.
COMMUNICATION
a. Expressing needs and feelings rather than blame.
One of ...
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Create a Network and Catapult Your Job Search
Networking is still known as a great job-search strategy, yet it eludes some individuals simply because they don’t know how to go about it. Individuals also tend to shy away from networking because i...
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Create A Realistic Plan For Success
Every one of us wants to be successful, but we often rely on luck and chance to achieve our goals. The best example in this case is someone who wants to get rich but only has one alternative: playing the Lotto. Of course, there are chances of becoming ri
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Create and Maintain a Conscious Love Relationship
Create and Maintain a Conscious Love Relationship
Robert Elias Najemy
Part 1 of a 3 part series
We present you with a brief outline of some basic points necessary to tend to in order to create a harmonious and loving relationship. ...
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